About Us

We are a group of friendly male naturists

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Our group is mostly gay or bi (but we are inclusive to gay-friendly straight people who identify as he/him or were assigned at birth as male but are non binary) who meet every month, sometimes more frequently, for a nude social with pot luck food. It is strictly social and we discourage any sexual activity at the event. At some events, we have access to a hot-tub.

 

Age Range

We have a wide age range (recent parties have included people in the age range 19 - 82)

 

Eating and Drinking

We have successfully operated a 'Pot Luck' system of buffet food contributions but we have vegans, vegetarians, pescatarians and omnivores. There are also drinkers and teetotalers. The hosts decide the food range (it will be stated on the invitation) but If you are arriving after 9 pm on a Friday party, or 4pm on a Sunday, we will assume you have eaten: just bring what you like to drink. For games nights bring your own snack and alcohol if you like to drink that, otherwise it is tea or coffee. New hosts may try new ways (such as providing a buffet and make a collection to cover the cost).

When? Fridays and some Sundays.

We try to have the Sunday parties on the 3rd Sunday of the month with Friday parties two days before. In even number months the bigger hot tub socials are in Highgate, and in the odd number months the events are smaller in Ealing, but these are sometimes varied to accommodate holidays, host commitments elsewhere and travel. Due to Covid, we have reduced capacity in this recovery period to allow better spacing and this has resulted in some people being disappointed.

Through an odd coincidence, we tried (in Autumn 2021) having an overflow party on a Sunday after and it proved popular with people wanting to socialise after the naked yoga session at Brewer Street Yoga (now there is no Sunday swim).  It also allowed an opportunity to accommodate people late in expressing an interest in the main Friday parties. Indeed, some said it suited them better.

THEREFORE ....

We will try through 2022, two gatherings in a weekend in Highgate months, the main social will still be Friday evening, as is our established pattern, and a follow-up on Sunday, two days later.  See the 'Home' page for dates and times for the next two or three months.- Easter, August and December will cause changes in the normal pattern. When RSVPing please clearly opt for the one that suits you best if there are two.

New ideas

We are developing new, smaller events such as ‘Come Dine with Me, Naked’, board games evenings, and film nights. Smaller group events are best organised through WhatsApp or Telegram. These may be less of a challenge for people starting out than a full social event. Email us with your phone number to be added to the WhatsApp or Telegram MLNN groups at malelondonsocials@gmail.com. PLEASE NOTE these are not for chatting but for fixing meals, film night meets, flat shares even holidays. People may have the chat open at work, so . . . . .

PLEASE keep it to words if possible, avoid chat and if you need to introduce yourself with a face picture, keep it to that or, if a wider shot, keep it to clothed pictures.  We do NOT want it to be labelled or regarded as NSFW (not safe for work), otherwise it won't work!

Join us?

If you are in London on a Friday evening and sometimes Sunday afternoons and want to wind down from the week with a naturist social (for people identifying with the pronouns he/him or were assigned at birth as male but are non binary) we do one every month usually alternating between Highgate (N6) and Ealing (near Hanger Lane tube). When in Highgate there is a garden hot tub (fun, even in the snow) and it is just outside the dining room door. It is a townhouse that holds about 45 comfortably (35 with better spacing) so most of the gossip goes on in the dining room and kitchen on the ground floor, but there are sofas and chairs on which to chill and chat on the first floor. Ealing is a smaller flat and takes about 25. (reduced to 15 to assist social spacing).

Times

We start Friday parties at 19.00  close the tub in Highgate at 23.00 and finish about 23.30 in both locations (so people can get the Underground/trains back to most places and neighbours in nearby bedrooms are not disturbed) Highgate Station is a 12 - 15 minute walk away. The N20 or N91 night bus will get you back to the centre if you prefer a bus. Hanger Lane and Park Royal stations are a 5 or 10 minute walk respectively from the Ealing venue. Sundays we gather from 12.30 and finish about 17.00.

 

New Hosts

We are also starting a series of smaller ‘events’ as noted above and seeking hosts with suitable venues* to give a good geographical spread and maintain our ethos promoting non-sexual nude socials. The first we will try is in Vauxhall for the post/non Eurovision Sunday gathering in May.

 

Finally

We are different from the groups that operate through NakedMates and our regulars  appreciate that it is purely social - it is our USP (unique selling point). (see the "Joining and our ethos" page)

 

*If others can consider hosting an event from time to time please email us at malelondonsocials@gmail.com.